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Take Up Your Cross and Follow Him

9/4/2013

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What does it mean to "take up our cross?"

When he described this choice, Jesus had a decision that only he recognized.  On one hand was a path that other people wanted for him, to make him king of the Israelites.  They could have deposed Herod, put Jesus in the place David once held, therein fulfilling their limited, social understanding of who their Messiah would be.

Or as Jesus knew, he could give himself over to the people in a different way, to torture and death, sacrificed because humanity is too broken and sinful to honor goodness and truth when it stands in our midst.

Only Jesus knew that through death on the cross, he would become the ultimate King of all nations, the Savior and the mighty Lamb.  Only Jesus valued that path more than becoming the king of a small, impoverished nation, fully under Roman occupation.   See almost ever time, we humans will choose a lesser victory rather than the challenge and pain of acquiring God's purpose for our lives.  Let me reiterate that - EVERYONE else wanted Jesus to aspire to being king of the Jewish nation at that time... not King of kings for all time.

Only Jesus pursued his calling, his purpose from God.  No one else understood. 

And only Jesus had to literally carry the cross to become Savior of the universe.  For the rest of us our cross is not literal, but a description of our burden, our pain, that stands between us now, and the life God calls us towards.  

The choice is always ours.  We can live a lesser path.  We can become kings of our own broken country.  Or we can pursue God's will alone, and live the triumph only He knows is ours to claim.  

It won't be easy.  
We will have to let go of our false hopes.  
We will have to deal in truth.  
It will likely hurt sometimes.  
It will take great courage.  
It will require trust in God - the One who sees what we cannot yet see.

Yet it will be greater than any other possibility for our lives.

"Take up your cross, and follow Him."

In Christ!
 
-M4
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Dealing with Stress - There has to be a better way

12/4/2012

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     Last year our family ventured to the Woodfield Mall the Saturday before Christmas.  I “checked-in” on Facebook at the mall.  The response was quick and clear: why in the world would you do something that stressful?  Upon further review they might have been correct.  

     355 was bumper to bumper that day and parking was worse than normal, and normal is already difficult.  There were people everywhere.  Navigating around folks in the mall looking for the perfect gift was as tough as weaving through traffic in gridlock.  Standing in line to pay for gifts took longer than the shopping.  And then there is the issue of how I was actually going to pay for all this Christmas shopping.  When we pile up people, traffic, and money, there is a buffet of choices of what might stress you out.  

     Stress is everywhere.  Stress is an emotional, mental, or physical tension resulting from circumstances.  We can’t escape stress.  Whether at home, work, or school, there are emotional and mental circumstances creating tension that impacts us.  Stress can erode our body.  And stress can erode our soul.  

     Unaddressed stress raises our blood pressure and weakens our immune system.  It makes us more susceptible to illness and has even been linked to causing heart disease and cancer.  Unaddressed stress also attacks our emotional immune system.  It can cause us to be quick to anger at those we love most.  It will cause us to cross boundaries that will hurt people.  Stress is an enemy of the heart.  

     Life will always create stress.  Chances are you cannot quit your demanding job, walk out on your financial obligations, or avoid traffic.  Emotional and mental tension are built into our lives - especially in Chicagoland.  The issue is: how do we deal with it to reduce the harm?  How can we change ourselves internally so that stress does not damage our lives? 

     First, God says to worry about nothing.  Worry is intellectual energy devoted towards a problem we cannot solve.  When we lay awake at night worried about a decision at work that is out of our hands, that is worry.  When we imagine the bad things that COULD go wrong with already stressful situations, it is worry.  Nothing is solved by worry.  Worry only causes us distress.  So worry about nothing.

     Second, pray about everything.  Ask God for direction, and ask for Him to get involved in a direct way in a situation.  Too often, myself included, we think that bothering God with anything less than AIDS in Africa or hunger in Haiti is wrong.  God is personal, God is interested in you and me, and God has the time and the ability to work for the good of each and every one of us.  God is probably sitting on the edge of His seat, waiting to be invited into the complicated and stressful situations of your life.  So pray about everything.

     Give God a chance to do something.  We as middle class Americans want what we want, and we want it now.  We complain when the popcorn takes two and a half minutes in the microwave, and we get bored driving 65 mph instead of 75.  But in these stressful things, give God time, and give God a chance to work through and in the people involved to untangle the stressful situations in your life.  

     This is really a matter of trust.  Do we trust God?  Will we give God time to deal with our lives, or will we insist on our way right now and risk the mess we are likely to make?  The fact is, it might take longer than two minutes for God’s outcome. I have learned the hard way that God’s timeline is rarely mine.  But His solutions are also not mine, and they are always much, much greater than mine.  Always.  I am afraid I have cut God off from creating a better future for me often - simply because of my impatient lack of trust.  Give God a chance, and give God time.

     You will encounter stress today.  That is a given.  The question is, what will you do about it?  Will you allow it to attack your body and mind and attack your soul?  Know that there is a better way.  Worry about nothing.  Pray about everything.  Give God a chance.  



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Is Anger Always Wrong?

11/13/2012

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“I AM MOVING THEM,” I barked!   I yelled loud...  in the front yard...  at 7 AM ... on a Sunday morning.   

     I would love my neighbors to come to church.  Our church is a friendly and encouraging place with kind and sincere leaders.  But that morning you couldn’t tell by how I acted.  I got angry over literally nothing.   

     All I had to do was move the speakers as we were loading up for worship early one Sunday morning.  All I had to offer was a strong back and an ounce of humility.  But instead, I wanted to do it my way, and even the fact that I had no knowledge of what the right way was did not keep me from getting angry. 

     Anger is everywhere.  Anger is hollering from the bleachers at youth sports.  It’s on cable news.  It’s inside the walls of our nice homes.  It is always stuck in traffic.  And it is filling up the local law enforcement and court system.  Anger comes out of people like us, almost everywhere we go. 

     Anger is an emotional response to not getting our way.  When we snap, rant, or  unload, we are responding to not getting our way.  

     Anger always reveals what we value, what we desire, and the way we want the world to be.  Anger, like our calendar, and like our bank statements, communicates what we value, and who we really are.  That Sunday morning my anger revealed that I have a hard time accepting the simplest instructions, that I want to do things my way, even when it is obvious I don’t know what that is.  So apparently, I value being a know it all.  My anger revealed a dark, stubborn side in me.    

     Often, in the name of religion, we are told to stifle our anger.  Some traditions speak of anger as one of the “seven deadly sins.”  While I agree that we can, and often do, respond emotionally to some of the most petty things, I also know that anger can be the most righteous response to a situation.  Anger is not always wrong.

     I know this because Jesus got angry.  One day he walked into the temple courtyard and completely blew his top.  The public gathering area to enter worship had been run over by con artists who sold sin-removing sacrificial animals and “clean” monetary offerings at ridiculously inflated prices.  Jesus hated seeing the people swindled as they tried to move towards God.  

     So Jesus got angry.  He created a whip of cords, and he drove out the money changers and let the sacrificial animals run free. Jesus‘ anger revealed what he valued; he valued people being able to access a relationship with God. (For a great video of this story go to YOUTUBE and search Jesus and Money Changers.  It is the first video to pop up; it is two minutes long.)    

     Take 30 seconds, and reflect on the last time you got angry (chances are you won’t have to think back too far).  Was it something petty or something life defining?  How did you not get your way?  What does your anger say that you value?  Does what you value need to be reconsidered?  Do not hide behind empty statements like “I can’t help it” or “I don’t know where that came from.”  Allow God to dig below the surface. 

     Anger is not always wrong, but anger does always reveal what we really value.     



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Parenting & Freedom: Sheltering Your Child

8/15/2012

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You will find VERY few posts on here regarding parenting advice.  Frankly, regardless of the number of initials behind your name, you don't know how it has all gone until your child is somewhere around 35 years old.  Only then can an honest assessment be made.  

BUT here is a one tidbit of cautionary advice: there is a difference between 'sheltering' and 'constraining'.  

See this God of ours made us free.  Freedom is something we must contend with as humans, as individuals, and as parents.  Our children are about to live totally free.  We have a few years to prepare them to contend with that reality.  

I see a lot of kids the same age as my son who have fewer privileges, less access to the things associated with modern life (the internet, etc) and more fear-based parental presence.

We often use the word 'sheltered' to describe these kids, but that is not the right description.  Shelter is a beautiful concept, Biblically.  God uses it 

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Who Gets to Lead?

5/30/2012

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In most social settings it will eventually come out: I am a minister.  And that makes people do the weirdest things.  Some hide their beer as though I had not been holding one myself.  Most replay the entire conversation quickly in their heads to remember how many times they cursed.  More often than not people will fumble out a statement that goes something like this, "Wow, I could never do that.  I could never lead a church.”

     I often remind folks of two things: first, there is nothing special about me, no holy water I drink each morning, no halo around my head.  I am just a man, a guy, a bit of a nerd, a football fan, who leads because I have been asked to lead by God.  And second, what I have learned is this: God is asking each of you to lead in some capacity, too.   

     God defines leadership as servanthood in this world.  And God asks each of us to love each other to the point of serving.  And that means you.  Yes, I spent eight years acquiring a college and graduate degree in theology and saturating myself with biblical study at the highest academic level.   Yes, I have seventeen years of experience in church leadership on my resume.  But what this experience and study has really led me to is a clear, faithful, Jesus-modeled landing spot on who 'leads'.  God only wants leaders who serve.  And God wants servants who give their best.  Beyond that, just as Jesus demonstrated in His ministry, there aren't really any barriers!  Women can serve and men can serve and therefor lead.  God needs young people who can lead and wise elders who can lead.  The church needs single people who can lead and married people who can lead.  And God even needs divorced and remarried people like myself to model servant leadership.

     As the church in America continues to shrink, we have seen, and I fear we will continue to see, a closing of the theological mind.   And if the church fails to serve with the best of the human mind and the human heart's capacity, as God created us to lead, as God commanded in the first Commandment, we, the church, fail.  If we, the church, tell 50% of our community that even though they run a business, or manage in company 6 days out of the week, they may not have a leadership or teaching title on Sundays because of her gender, we fail.  If we tell the 50% of our community that is divorced or remarried that we, the church, will forever define you and condemn you by your past, unlike our leader Jesus modeled, we fail.  And if the mission of God is sidelined by the failure of the church to lead, the blessing of God sorely needed by so many will be missed.

     Even as we have a leadership crisis in our culture I am hopeful for the future of God’s church.  God has a way of getting done what God wants done.  In surprising and unexpected ways, through mangers, crosses, and empty tombs, God will get done what He wants to get done, to shatter the darkness of earth with Love.  Let us move past the legalisms of the past that have and continue to shrink the church in America and move into God’s future where servant leaders lead and the mission of God trumps all.





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Yucko.

3/9/2012

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At PneuProject, we recently partnered with Chris Baker of Ink 180.  He transforms gang and sex-trafficking tattoos into something beautiful.  We have spent the last couple weeks getting to know him and his ministry work better, and I tell you what, it is GROSS - as in human depravity style YUCK.  Not Chris - Chris is awesome - but why he is in business is straight up nasty.


See a tattoo is not an instantaneous process.  So he sits and works on a beautiful artistic endeavor for hours - on someone's body who has literally been violated, stolen, abused, made to BE worthless.  And they tell him their stories.


And since he is working through the law enforcement in order to provide his services, he talks with a lot of officers and agents, the courts etc, and hears THEIR stories about all the icky, nasty stuff that we all honestly hope is not really a part of American society.  But it is.  It is PROLIFIC.  And it is horrific.  I am so ashamed by what we are allowing - each of us - all of us.  Remember in school hearing about the people in the towns next to the gas chambers, how they insisted they didn't know it was happening?  Well we ARE those people - because it is right here, in our towns, on our watch.


Kids afraid, made to run drugs, beaten until they become part of a gang, kidnapped or sold into sex-slavery.  Tattooed by their 'owners'.  Marked, shot, arrested, scarred, lost, incarcerated...hopeless.  


And Chris allows them the chance to move forward without the sign of their oppressors still inked into their very bodies.  He gives them the simple dignity of choosing, perhaps for the first time in their entire life, what their life might look like...literally.  


If you feel obligated to find out more about what is happening right HERE all around us in comfortable suburbia, come out to Tap House Grill on 3/18 at 7:30.  We will be interviewing Chris & showing some of his work.  He may even bring someone who has chosen to make this transformation to share.



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Is the Bible Against Women Teaching or in Leadership?

1/20/2012

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Short answer, no, the Bible isn't against it and the church shouldn't be.  The Bible actually supports women in teaching and leadership roles repeatedly.  Here are the quick instances that come to mind:  1) Christ himself revealed himself to the woman at the well, who proclaimed His Lordship to her whole town - many believing in Him as a direct result.  2) He also explicitely sent Mary from the tomb to reveal the resurrection to the Disciples.  3) The Isrealite people were led by Deborah, as judge, and 4) saved by Esther as queen.  5) And even in the non-Isrealite traditions, the Queen of Sheba was respected and given hospitality by the Isrealite king, Solomon.  6) And even much maligned Jezabel's leadership authority was never questioned even though she was feared for being straight-up evil.   
 
The entire prohibition against women teaching is sourced in a few sentances in Paul's letters and routinely taken out of the context of his humanity and his good ministry.  As to the first point, Paul was Paul, a human, sinful and as lost as any of us.  He was not the Christ, and he himself repeatedly affirms that he is not to be treated as the Christ.  Paul himself describes that in Christ there is no male or female, that love trumps everything, that love is NOT insistance on one's own way, that placing a law of any kind above the work of the Holy Spirit destroys the power of the Gospel.  He repeatedly confronts believers to get out from being under religious law (like circumcision), but then he ardently applies religious law to women regarding silence and head covering.  And there's the rub... But seriously, who can blame him, those days were very oppressive towards women - that was the norm - he was officiating in his present time.  Paul was a single man, who was doing his absolute best to share the Gospel and keep his congregations from falling into chaos.  He just displayed his humanity from time to time, blinded by his own blind spots, passing judgement that can't be passed, etc...just like us.  It's not like he was Jesus, after all.
 
 So anyway, the vast weight of history through scripture supports that women are not prohibited from leadership by God, though it obviously seems strikingly less frequent.  I don't want to get too deep into the historical aspect, but it is worth mentioning we are in the very first era in human history - really only about 30 years of the entire human history - in which women have been granted any semblance of equality or opportunity, and that is only happening here in Western society.   It is only here and now that men and women may each individually grapple with serving God with their entire mind, body and spirit to their best capacity.  It is only here and now that each person can truly be treated as a creation who God has ordained for good work in such a time as this.  That is an exciting opportunity for the body of Christ.  
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Deep, Dark and Dirty

1/19/2012

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Secrets are a bugger.  Everybody has them.  But I have never heard someone say, "I am just so thankful for all the things I hide about myself."

We keep secrets to protect not who we really are, but to protect who we pretend to be. 

It takes a lot of courage to deal in honesty.  It is hard to face truth and grant forgiveness and acceptance.  It is hard to not place the fear judgement over the love of truth. 

And there is the rub.


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Freedom & real life

1/14/2012

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Freedom, can't live with it, can't live without it.

Here it is:  You are free to pick your nose at the intersection, log on to late night computer porn... and/ or give 40% of your income to the people working on ending AIDS in Africa. 

You are free to die after living a meaningless, self-indulgent life where nothing but your latest desire was satisfied... or you are free to embark on a life of serving the poor of India as they die ala Mother Theresa. 

And anywhere on that scale between the two.  You just, well, get to choose.

Most of the time this adds up to far less significant issues like, are you gonna eat another donut?  Do you open the door for that man behind you even though it is cold out and that causes you to wait 3 seconds more at the door?  Do you pick up the wrapper on the ground, or drop your own next to it?  Do you take a second look at the man or woman in line at the grocery store because you like what you see?   Do you take the close parking spot or do you walk another 20 yards and leave the good one for the next guy...

Put all that together - a few average moments on earth -  and you either get to be a guy who is healthy, conscientious, faithful, and self-sacrificing....

OR you are a guy who is unhealthy, brusque, consumptive, pervy and aggressive.

And that, my friends, is freedom.
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Big tent religion

7/20/2011

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I have had a lot of questions over the last week about what we believe, what we are trying to accomplish, who we are targeting at PneuProject, etc.  So let me introduce you to a concept we like to call, the big tent.

Big tent means everybody is welcome.  Our tent is defined by being Christian, so we are going to talk about Jesus.  And Jesus talks a lot about how to love, non-judgement, addressing your own issues in life, forgiving others, living with them gracefully, etc.

If we take him seriously, we aren't EVER going to be telling you what kind of food is wrong, which categories of people are evil, etc.  Because that flies in the face of the things that he taught (see above).

Now, in our church experience, that has caused a lot of consternation.  People WANT to be told what to do towards God, what to believe, what political party to vote, etc.  They want to be told what we believe, so they can decide if they are for or against US not Jesus. 

And if we were to do it, the biggest problem with us spelling out what we believe and requiring you to conform to it, is that essentially, it is requiring you to think, pray, live, LIKE US. 

And while we are REALLY confident about Jesus and his purposes for you, we are still very much works in progress, and we would like the same opportunity we are affording you - to grow as God leads us.

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